(socially acceptable, non-crass techniques to ask chicks to fall asleep with you)
updated: March 17 2019 – haha – “Netflix and Chill” had been initially our ‘idea’, the good news is it is main-stream!
If you should be house with this Saturday night, it better be along with your fuckbuddy half-naked close to you as you both read Good Looking Loser. We invested so many Saturday evenings in the home in my 20’s. We be sorry too.
In the event that you can not speak to girls through the night, simply head out to check out if you’re able to make eye contact (+ laugh) with girls or go watch other guys communicate with random girls have a look at our program. Even if you do not say a term the whole time – it’s better for your “game” than reading my disgraceful creepy weblog.
I did a video clip (see below) and was not planning to perform a post with this ‘common feeling’ topic but I made a decision it had been a good indisputable fact that every person see this.
Guys that “research” sex/dating from the Web frequently experience ‘information overload’ and literally freeze up throughout their interactions or have no idea how to find down where in actuality the girls appears.
They also have drawn in a lot of “game” disinformation that Good Looking Loser is personally responsible for reversing.
I’m certain you have seen those “Asking 100 Girls For Sex” or “Will You Have Sex if they will sleep with him with me?” viral YouTube videos where a guy asks 100 girls. Frequently he asks issue while the very initial thing he states.
As an example –
(do not bother watching these in complete)
In many cases girls see the camera, in many cases not. That does not actually matter.
The results are exactly the same in every the videos –
>98% associated with the girls state “No.”
Here you will find the two methods –
Table of Contents
0:00 The YouTube “social experiments” – just what do they mean?
1:45 Verbal vs. physical screening (physical will ALWAYS get you further, faster)
4:15 “can you like to get together for a drink ?” “Lets grab a drink tonight.”
(don’t suggest it really is a date or coffee)
5:45 Logistical concerns – where guys that nail 50+ girls via cool approach live.
7:25 “Do you want to come over and watch a film ?” “You should visit and now we’ll view a film .”
8:20 “Normal” guys that Get Laid a lot use both of these ALL THE TIME.
9:45 Stupid egghead rebuttal: “seeking rapport/asking concerns” is wrong.
11:20 A note on exactly how much “game” actually matters.
12:00 which will be better? Spoken or stuff that is physical?
12:45 ways to get faster aided by the physical stuff.
15:00 Use both: ask woman to generally meet for a glass or two, then her to come over for the movie/drink.
Tonight#1 Offer to Meet Up for a Drink
(“You want to grab a drink? Lets do this.”)
This proposition, among guys that get yourself a complete large amount of pussy, could be the single many utilized line when you look at the reputation for the world.
Every girl into the universe (unless you REALLY seem like boyfriend material) knows this will be an invite for future sex.
It is the universal, polite, socially appropriate invite for sex.
If you should be wanting to get Laid, it is a better alternative than asking a girl to brazzers cheating “dinner” so she starts evaluating you as a possible boyfriend and withholds her pussy and soon you are emotionally invested which means you don’t believe she is a slut.
Perhaps the minority of apprehensive girls that think “he’s most likely just looking to get me drunk”, will ironically completely enable you to do this – if they’re sexually available and DTF.
Lots of guys are frightened to make use of this idea as it’s “overused” or “too normal”.
That’s absurd, the need to be creative/witty is just insecurity and inexperience that is social.
(i have been there, trust me)
Other people are scared that girls will think “this person would like to rape me”.
Emotionally healthy girls WILL NOT THAT that is THINK.
Simply trust me on this one too.
A DTF woman will likely not miss a polite invite to obtain a glass or two with you – if she likes you.
We completely encourage you to definitely utilize this proposition EACH TIME before taking a woman’s number.
#2 Offer to view a Movie/Hangout (at your home)
(“the trend is to drop by and we’ll grab/watch a movie and hang out?” tonight)
If “grabbing a beverage” may be the no. 1 idea of all-time, “watch a movie/hangout” is #1b.
It might be no. 1 really, it’s this that every person whom Gets Laid in college uses if they aren’t at events.
(but it is usually the ‘after party’ pretense)
Such as the proposition that is prior girls understand “watch a movie” to be an invite for sex (or at the very least some form of messing around).
Like “getting a drink”, the “watch a movie/hangout” idea is socially appropriate, courteous and never too ahead.
Perhaps it really is apparent however you are proposing to “watch a movie”, “pick up a film” (spend time) rather than “see a film” or “go to a movie” (date).
Make that clear.
(it frequently is when you state “hangout”)
The invite is a excuse that is socially acceptable the lady to come over and fool around – whenever you want.
If you’re “getting a drink” with a girl (or end up on an even more traditional date) you need to use this pretense to obtain the woman to come over afterward.
All girls understand what this means.
Girls understand this and can come over looking way hotter than should they had been simply likely to view a film.
A “movie/hangout” could be the universal way that is socially acceptable getting a lady to come over, but these alternatives are acceptable too –
Come over so we’ll chill.
Come over so we’ll earn some food and now have some drinks.
Come over so we’ll simply chill within the hot tub.
Come over so we’ll smoke weed.
Come over so we’ll do a little blow.
These pretenses are certainly not necessary once you’ve fucked your ex and this woman is your fuckbuddy (simply tell/ask her to come over) – but can be useful.
You do not need every other pretenses than those 2.
How/Why Performs This “Work”!?
Because the girl likes both you and desires to have intercourse to you.
This woman is usually simply waiting around for the opportunity to do this.
Preferably, the lady should ALREADY FULLY KNOW what you’re searching (sex, not just a gf) for when you meet her, however these propositions will keep no doubt.
Because of this that I do not have confidence in garbage like “text game” or “working on” girls after you meet them. Even yet in the instances that are small it might appear to function, it is barely efficient and odds are – the girl ALREADY liked you.
The next time you wish to communicate (verbally) with her and want to know where she stands – just suggest a “drink” or “movie/hangout” that you want to sleep.
You will get your solution.
Although I encourage, real screening (just a little goes a considerable ways, specially throughout the day), this particular “verbal testing” is a fantastic method to arrive at the idea if you aren’t comfortable being physical with girls.
(still – you will need to get confident with it, spoken assessment will not be just like real screening + tiny talk)
Once per week, someone asks ways to get a lady to come over or wonders the right way to step a”hang up out” instead of a night out together.
Then that’s good news if this was common sense to you (therefore you should have ALREADY have experience using these pretenses at least 20-30 times.
Chances are – you have got recently been Laid that is getting and this tangled up some free ends.
If it absolutely wasn’t good judgment, at this point you have the best reply to –
Just What do i actually do to generally meet (rather than date) a lady?
That is because effortless you- she will jump at the chance to get a drink/movie and chill with you as it gets and when a girl likes.